Boutonniere The groom wears his boutonniere on the left lapel, nearest to his heart. Buttonaires are generally single blossoms such as rosebuds. You can also consider using a cluster of flowers instead of a single bloom. The groom gives each man in his wedding party a boutonniere. The officiant if male may also be given. The ring bearer may or may not wear depending on his outfit. A single blossom such as rosebud, freesia or mini carnation is used as a boutonniere. The groom should also consider ordering a bouttoniere for his other close family members. This adds the expenses but but the family members feel more included in your wedding when they get one. To save money condiser using a mini-carnation rather than roses. Back To Wedding Flowers